Like every Kenyan girl lately, we are going through a lot. Between adulting, costly skin care prices and the Nairobi dating scene, we can all agree we need an escape, somewhere we can let our hair down, or take our wigs off and just relax. And there’s no safer space than with our girls.

There’s something about having a dependable community of girlfriends, another woman (or more) who despite your varied backgrounds, you have forged a closeknit relationship that allows you to be yourself. A sisterhood that supports, affirms, inspires and has your back.

We draw so much from our female friendships and bonds, which is why we need to replenish them constantly, and what better time to do that than on Galentine’s day.

So here’s a list of fun ways to celebrate your Real Ones on this special day:

1. Brunch Date
   Treat yourselves to a delicious brunch at that cute cafe that you’ve all been eyeing. Y’all work too hard to not take a moment to enjoy the perks. So dress up and show up to that date. And while you’re at it take lots of photos for the gram and let your content creator friend take videos for her followers. Soak in the finery and remind each other that “we need to do this more often.”
2. Girls Night Out
   If y’all are not brunch people but like to turn up, you could get together for a girls’ night. Start off with dinner then head out for the party. Or you could all meet up at one of your places to get all dressed up, help each other out with your make up and head out together. Remember to have fun and stay safe while you’re at it.
3. Girls Night In
   Girlies on a budget? Or just homebodies, no worries, you can stay indoors and still have fun with a pajama party. Agree on a host, and you can go full on with the matching pajamas or not. Create a list of fun things to do to make it a memorable one.
   If you’re anything like my crew, you’ll split the duties amongst yourselves, have someone(s) on dinner duty (or order takeout), have another pick out a movie, and another on the drinks, or you could do everything together.
   You can enjoy the rest of the night playing board games, having girl talk, or your sleepover could double up as an intervention for whoever needs it, lol.
4. Connect with Nature
   Another one for the outdoor girlies. You can enjoy a quick escape from the city at Karura Forest, Ngong Hills or any other nature trail within or around the city. These places offer pocket-friendly outdoor activities such as hiking, bike riding, zip lining etc. that allow you to bond with your girls and nature at the same time. You can put together a picnic basket and find a spot for you and your girls to just chill and enjoy the scenery.
5. Gifting
   You don’t have to wait for birthdays to get your girl a gift, you could swap wish lists and gifts for Galentine’s.
   And because it’s your girls you know they don’t expect you to break the bank (we’re barely out of Njaanuary). It could be that mouse Cindy is always mentioning but forgetting to buy for her computer, or a ticket to a play you know Marion would love. A thoughtful gesture that tells them you love and value your friendship.
6. Tusker Cider Galentine’s Celebration
   If you and your girls are looking for something extra special to do this Galentine’s, Tusker Cider has a host of fun activities lined up for you and your girls including offers and surprise treats with every purchase of their crisp refreshing cider available in select stores and on ke.thebar.com. *T’s & C’s apply
   Here is a list of events where you can expect a full-on Tusker Cider treatment marked with glam and indulgence. You will enjoy complimentary flowers, welcome cocktails, fun and engaging activities including paint & sip and exquisite food and drink offers. *T’s & C’s apply
   Kizomba Valentine’s Edition at Artcaffe, Britam every Thursday throughout February.
   Valentine’s at Golden View Naivasha on 14th February.
   Valentine’s at Poa Place Eldoret on 15th February.
   Valentine’s Brunch at Pride Inn Mombasa on 15th Feb.
   Mapenzi Vibandaski at Bustani Gardens, Redhill on 8th March.
   For more details, check the Tusker Cider social media pages and raise a toast to your Real Ones this Galentine’s Day.